The Purpose
Why?
I wanted to give Jacqui (Bear) something to read and enjoy until I could meet her in person. Which we now have.
At the time I created this site, I live in Canada and she lives in Australia. And I recognized in her qualities that are quite rare.
You know when you picture the sort of person you’ve wanted to be for a long time? You feel a warmth in your heart or a stirring in your spirit or even a sensation you really like. It’s just like your can hear yourself saying, “This is someone special — a keeper!”
That’s what she is to me.
Sweetheart Honey Beara.k.a. Jacqui from Perth, Australia
If you’ve got a few (3) minutes, I’ll tell you how we met. Make sure your speakers are on and click the audio button below and I’ll share it with you in my own voice.
However, if you don’t have speakers you can read the transcript in this Adobe PDF file 
here.
After you’ve listened to the audio post, or before if you’ve got your knickers, bloomers, boxers, gitch, mid-thigh briefs, or panties in a knot and can’t wait, you can take one more interesting step.
I promise it’s worth it. By pressing down hard on the link below, you’ll be taken to my first ever website. It’s one page. This is what Jacqui read on the first day we met:
NOTE: You’re reading the first post I ever wrote on Loving Jacqui. I edited and added to on February 4, 2008, so I could make it the “About” page on my new Loving Jacqui website design. The comment form is still open if you want to tell us what you think.
Filed under: Audios, Australia, Bear, Blogging, Christoph
By Christoph Dollis at 1:22 AM Vancouver, Canada time on Monday January 30th, 2006 |
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how amazingly blessed your girl must be. To have someone put that much time and effort into just talking about her and how she makes you feel.
i can only imagine how happy you make her with these extravagent romantic gestures.
all i know is i hope she gets to keep you forever.
all my love
BEAR
xoxox
Comment by Bear
2:06 AM Vancouver, Canada time on Mon. Jan 30th, ’06
John Paul II once said, “Man cannot live without love. He remains a being that is incomprehensible for himself, his life is senseless, if love is not revealed to him, if he does not encounter love, if he does not experience it and make it his own, if he does not participate intimately in it.” He also explained that men and women were not designed to live their lives for their own sakes, but, paradoxically, would only find themselves through the sincere gift of self to the other. (If you want to really dive into the sheer beauty of this idea more fully, I highly recommend Christopher West’s book, Theology of the Body for Beginners. I wish I’d known even a smidgen of what it contains as I embarked on my journey with my beloved. It is radically life-affirming in explaining how our very bodies/selves reveal, especially through our natural desire for union, who we truly are, and what our lives actually mean.)
Jacqui and Chris, please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you both as you embark on life’s greatest adventure. And as you delight in the gift of each to the other, may you be blessed with true joy, meaning and peace!
Comment by Linda
6:51 AM Vancouver, Canada time on Fri. Feb 3rd, ’06
wow…. so much more respect for you two. i hope this works out to more.
Comment by Wendy
12:24 PM Vancouver, Canada time on Fri. Feb 3rd, ’06
Your braver than I am Chris. I still have not found what I am looking for. I’m happy to see that you have. Hopefully you can bring your sweetie over soon. It should be easier now since the country has finally “flushed the toilet” on the Liberal government. So things over in the immigration department should become more efficient and less politically correct.
cj
Comment by cj
11:10 AM Vancouver, Canada time on Sat. Feb 4th, ’06
Hey there,
I loved your message about my beautiful friend Jacqui. She means so much to me and I know you make her so happy. I know everything will work out for you both and can’t wait to meet you when you come to Perth.
Comment by Dani
1:02 AM Vancouver, Canada time on Fri. Feb 10th, ’06
Whats up Chris’
So what exactly are your intentions????? Its a bit late for that question when I see my best friend so unbelievably in love and happy. From what I’ve heard and seen it is apparent that you are going to treat her with the respect and love she deserves (cause she is truly the kindest, funniest, sweetest, silliest, prettiest girl I know)Can’t wait until July.
Comment by Bianca
10:22 PM Vancouver, Canada time on Sat. Feb 11th, ’06
My intentions, Bianca, are to enjoy life, realize my personal dreams, and learn about what matters most to me.
To the degree that Bear has helped me with that, I am grateful.
Comment by Chris Dollis
10:55 PM Vancouver, Canada time on Sat. Feb 11th, ’06
Ok I can’t belive that it has taken me so long to leave a comment on your page about my very very special friend Jac’s
It’s wonderful to hear all her stories about you but best of all to see how happy she is, which is the most important thing to me Jaqui deserves to be happy and she seems to have found that with you.
Jacqui is such a special person and anyone who is luckly enough to have been blessed with having her in some part of there life is exactly that blessed. I call Jac’s my rock we have been through lots of highs and lows and shared lots of feelings some good some bad. We have worked together for what feels like forever and created some very happy memories that I will always cherish. I am due to have a baby any day now and I know that my good friend will be there by my side to share in my joy and help create more special memories in our friendship. No matter where I am in the world I will always have a very special place in my heart for my very special Jacqui. All I ask is you Look after her and treat her well (as i am sure you will) Jacqui is one in a million.
Comment by Alexis
3:22 AM Vancouver, Canada time on Sat. Jun 3rd, ’06
I am so glad that Jacqui got me to read your page. She is an amazing person and it sounds like you are to. You make her so happy and I have seen the photos of when you went to Perth and you guys look great together. I myself have met a special someone on the net and we meet in August. I hope we have as much happiness as you both have
Jade xx
Comment by Jade
11:10 AM Vancouver, Canada time on Wed. May 9th, ’07