Epictetus to an Athlete — “Don’t show me your books, and don’t show me your gigantic weights, show me your shoulders!”

Today’s a Big Day, It’s Canada Day! Yay…

Happy 28th Birthday, Bear! xoxo!

Oh, and I see here by the calendar it’s also someone’s birthday in Australia. Happy Birthday, honey.

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An Important Day for a Gorgeous Bearlike Sweetheart and the Man Who Thinks About Her Everyday

Happy 27th Birthday Jacqui Bear!
This is just a brief message to let you understand, “You’re the One!”

I’ve been so busy I haven’t posted more. Perhaps if you’re good, and that could be a stretch, I’ll make up a couple videos in the next few weeks and show you our Canadian home and our neighbourhood.

IF you’re good to me…

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You’re the Greatest

Happy 26th Birthday, Jacqui Bear!
You know, as I was thinking about you, it suddenly dawned on me… you really are the greatest woman I have ever known.

I’ve known and still do know some fantastic women, some of whom were lovers or even loves… all of whom I wish well, however it ended… yet, you turn the residual sadness at a relationship, which might have been, “should have” been, and didn’t work out, and turn it into immense and fierce joy that it worked out the exact way it did so that I know you now.

As you understand, I do not put much stock in “luck”. I laugh at the concept. Sure, there is random chance, which affects us all.

Yet 99% of what people call luck is the logical consequence of people’s thoughts, attitudes, and above all, actions in both the past and in the present moment.

So I have created some “bad luck” in my life at different times, sometimes lots of it coming from the left and the right like a deer must feel on a long weekend holiday afternoon crossing the highway as a Mack truck is bearing down on it. But one thing, which I finally poured massive thought and energy into was finding you.

I didn’t know where you lived, how old you were, what colour, whether you were healthy or sick, or XXXX… but I knew that you had a beautiful loving heart, a sexy attitude, that you loved to play and laugh and have fun, that you adored children, that you could be strong during hard times, and had a desire to choose good over evil.

I knew this for sure, but that you would love me so much and make me feel so amazing despite my (3) faults (kidding) was surprising.

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